When to restrict gun access

Ron Smith · 05-24-2007, 08:59 AM

Chris,

I didn't have to go through this with my Dad. He passed 23 years ago. However, I have been dealing with my Mom who suffers from dementia for the last 7 years. I finally sought professional advice. I was told that this is the point that the "parent - child" roles begin to reverse. You have to take the parental role.

It is very difficult to do, but you have to do what is safest and best for them. Even under protest and at the cost of hurting their feelings. There really aren't any options. It progresses very rapidly and unexpectedly. It is very emotional and painful for all concerned.

Also, be prepared for the criticism and accusations from outsiders. Those who will assume you are doing it out of greed for your Father's possessions. Until they have to deal with it on a personal basis, you won't be able to convince them otherwise.

Best of Luck..

Ron

05-24-2007, 08:59 AM	#4
Ron Smith User Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Orygun Posts: 4,243 Thanks: 118 Thanked 245 Times in 150 Posts	Chris, I didn't have to go through this with my Dad. He passed 23 years ago. However, I have been dealing with my Mom who suffers from dementia for the last 7 years. I finally sought professional advice. I was told that this is the point that the "parent - child" roles begin to reverse. You have to take the parental role. It is very difficult to do, but you have to do what is safest and best for them. Even under protest and at the cost of hurting their feelings. There really aren't any options. It progresses very rapidly and unexpectedly. It is very emotional and painful for all concerned. Also, be prepared for the criticism and accusations from outsiders. Those who will assume you are doing it out of greed for your Father's possessions. Until they have to deal with it on a personal basis, you won't be able to convince them otherwise. Best of Luck.. Ron __________________ I Still Need DWM side plate #49... if anyone runs across a nice one. What ~Rudyard Kipling~ said...