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10-14-2022, 01:40 PM | #181 |
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Eric, do you have someone there with you right now…family/child/close friend/etc?
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10-14-2022, 02:11 PM | #182 |
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Yes I have her daughter also a nurse. Yesterday we had the grandchildren over! Yesterday she could move today not! The Hospice nurse stay with her all night! Thank God For Them And You All! I hold her hand and its still warm!
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10-14-2022, 02:53 PM | #183 |
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Our nurse survive the colon cancer and while in coma was aware of people prior not able to move~Debby hooked me up to my Sony Walkman and my feet began to keep beat!! STIMULATION!!!
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10-14-2022, 04:51 PM | #184 |
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Eric, you Debby and your family are in my thoughts at this difficult time.
May the road rise up to meet you. May the wind be always at your back. May the sun shine warm upon your face; the rains fall soft upon your fields and until we meet again, may God hold you in the palm of His hand.
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10-14-2022, 06:21 PM | #185 |
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Thank You For The Kind Words. I hope this on no one!!! PS Hospice is wonderful, around the clock to make Debbie confortablle! as she passes on! God Bless The Caregivers~~
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10-15-2022, 10:35 AM | #186 |
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Debbbie passed on last night as I held her hand~Peace at last~
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10-15-2022, 10:40 AM | #187 |
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Oh Eric,
There are no words I can say for you, and your family's loss. God Bless her Heart!! Mike and Ruthie
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10-15-2022, 11:30 AM | #188 |
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Thank You Both~
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10-15-2022, 11:38 AM | #189 |
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I know from experience that there is nothing I can say to ease your grief. Just know that a lot of people do care. Peace to you. Bill
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10-15-2022, 12:11 PM | #190 |
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Like Bill, I know there’s nothing I or anyone can say to ease your suffering right now. My own wife two years ago today, and while I feel her absence every day, I find myself doing more smiling than crying each time I think of her. Grief is proof of love. Hang in there and know you’ll see her again; she’s gone to prepare a place for you.
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Debbie's pain is gone now, and she is at peace.
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I miss her so much. Sometime life is crual, unfair~~
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Eric, you have my condolences and prayers. 10 years ago i held my dear wife's hand as she died and went to be with the Lord. I griveved but healed with time and the grace of God. I pray your journey forward will be equally positive.
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Thank You, The House Seems So Empty`I miss her already! This Sugggs!
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Oh god I have dreaded this day.
There is nothing we can say or do that will make this 'go away' Eric. I remember when my Halina was passing I felt so helpless. All I could do was love her until the bitter end ... when she left there was a huge part of me that went with her. I felt lost and nothing mattered at that moment ... I was so angry at GOD ... What did my angel ever do to deserve this, I cursed him for weeks. Then I realized that although I hurt like I never had before or since that Halina was no longer in pain and isn't that what matters ... she was no longer suffering and that I was being selfish. Once I realized this my pain changed from anger to sorrow but that it was OK because my soulmate no longer was hurting. I have missed her every second of every minute of every day and I always will but our time together will never fade. And so it is with your soulmate Debby, she is now in a place of no pain ... you will hurt but that is because you love her so much. There are more than a few of us who have gone through this and anytime you need some support we are here.
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I feel for you, Eric. I have been where you are. Know that we are walking with you on this journey.
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