[spangy]

Oh god I have dreaded this day.

There is nothing we can say or do that will make this 'go away' Eric.
I remember when my Halina was passing I felt so helpless.
All I could do was love her until the bitter end ... when she left there was a huge part of me that went with her.
I felt lost and nothing mattered at that moment ... I was so angry at GOD ... What did my angel ever do to deserve this, I cursed him for weeks.
Then I realized that although I hurt like I never had before or since that Halina was no longer in pain and isn't that what matters ... she was no longer suffering and that I was being selfish.
Once I realized this my pain changed from anger to sorrow but that it was OK because my soulmate no longer was hurting.
I have missed her every second of every minute of every day and I always will but our time together will never fade.

And so it is with your soulmate Debby, she is now in a place of no pain ... you will hurt but that is because you love her so much.
There are more than a few of us who have gone through this and anytime you need some support we are here.