Tom, I got in rather late on this thread, and I, too, send my deepest wishes to you. It time like this that one needs siblings and family for help and support. In my field, I see this every day. It really breaks me up. I absolutely understand your feelings. If it's any consolation at all, I firmly believe the person at this stage of life is protected by her dementia and is totally unaware. It's the kin folk that need a shoulder to cry on and time to grieve and recover. God bless.
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