[Dok]

and if you check, you will see my original post was dignified and respectful. And again, following an email to me, I sent Frank a lengthy email offline, and in the nicest of terms, tried to encourage him to change his mind and put all this, both in perspective and behind him. He claims he never received that email. But when he then comes in the Forum and starts in again, with unreasonable accusations, perhaps I lost it at that point, because my conciliatory gestures were appartently being ignored. I apologize to the Forum and to Frank for my choice of wording, for I too was annoyed at that point. I also would like this to be resolved, but Frank needs to recognize that my actions in stopping the thread, were not an attack on him personally, and I'm not sure he does. In any event, Frank will choose his own timing, but ultimately I trust he will return to the group, we will still be here when he gets back.