[wterrell]

Whoa!!!
I do believe that you have forgotten the first rule of gun trading: your gun (whatever it is) is always worth more than the other fellows pitiful piece of iron. The other fellow just doesn't know it yet. (Plus, you are not really sure that you want to trade and be handicapped with a 9mm.)
Please sit and contemplate the obvious merits that your 7.65 possesses. Another pistol will have to come pretty far to be an even trade, so the most difficult item that you have to determine is how much the 9mm trader must offer to boot.