I typed a rather detailed account of my experiences, tales my Marilyn-esque GF and I were told during our visits (I live nearby).
Too bad I timed-out while typing, and lost the effort trying to re-log-in. There were several aspects of his life he shared that I doubt few know of.
I found him to be a personable man with people socially.
I have a fondness for Pirates (NOT the Somali-type), ... that's the word I would use.