Hey QM !
Just now noticed you live in Ohio. I read about your situation/concerns with regret (I no longer use the word "Sorry").
I went to high school in Cuyahoga Hts (graduated in '71). Alcoa, Republic Steel, Lincoln Electric and many others were part of our tax base. We had the BEST of everything as a school system. Don't know how things are there now, since they all seem to have closed and moved to China.
I joined the USN in '75, got out in '79, and couldn't find a decent job in Cleveland, mostly due to Affirmative Action demands. I moved to AZ in '91. Best decision I ever made as regards quality of life, and freedom. NOT having to shovel my rain is a MAJOR plus IMHO !
When I talk to young guys these days, I really do try to push them into thinking about joining the Military. My ex-SIL joined the Army when he was 35, and it turned his life around greatly. I often regret NOT staying in for the full 30 yrs.
Plenty of jobs here in AZ, go on Craigslist to check. I see a lot of help-wanted signs around town. I think you have to be kind of a Masochist to live in Ohio. Of course, you do have Lake Erie. I wish you and your GF well ! The decisions you both make in the next 2 months will shape your future. Don't let Fear, Panic and a sense of desperation guide your hand.
