Sory to hear that. You are both in my prayers. Bill

Hospice is setting her up here~She wants to die at home! I pray I make it through make it through this. Twenty two years of marriage~Especially hard on our grand daughter~

Eric, I am so sorry. Are You ok?

ed

Damned sorry to hear this Eric. Having been in virtually the same place just about two years ago, I know that there’s really nothing I can say to ease your soul. I’ll pray for peace and mercy for you and Debbie. Know that you’re not alone as you and her walk this journey.

TKS, your words have helped through this aweful experience. I am setting her bed in the living room~She is definitly doing better me! Just trying to help her> I will depend on Hospice and find out if anything I might Do, Thanks for being here! Hug You Loved Ones!! Good Night!

Very sorry to read this Eric.

Like Bill_in_VA I went through this with my beloved Halina in 2017.

My heart is so heavy reading your post Eric :(

We are here for you and Debby Eric so please reach out at any time you need us.

During my saddest time a true friend gave me a fable that I have never forgotten and I pass this fable to you now.

One night I dreamed a dream. I was walking along the beach with my Lord. Across the dark sky flashed scenes from my life. For each scene, I noticed two sets of footprints in the sand, one belonging to me and one to my Lord.

When the last scene of my life shot before me I looked back at the footprints in the sand. There was only one set of footprints. I realized that this was at the lowest and saddest times of my life. This always bothered me and I questioned the Lord about my dilemma.

"Lord, You told me when I decided to follow You, You would walk and talk with me all the way. But I'm aware that during the most troublesome times of my life there is only one set of footprints. I just don't understand why, when I need You most, You leave me."

He whispered, "My precious child, I love you and will never leave you, never, ever, during your trials and testings. When you saw only one set of footprints, it was then that I carried you."

Thank You For Your Your Beautiful Conforting Words~ A Deacon Was Here To And Prayed Together. I Don't Know How Much Longer She Will Last! We Cherish Every Remaining Moment~ This Suggs As I Am Helpless! Thank You all So Much! Eric

Its sucks when there is nothing to!! Her grandchildren are stopping by hopefully not for the last time!

Last Rites given by her priest! Worst moment for both of us! Brings me back hen I was an Alter Boy~ It now hits home!!

An Early Happier Time~

Hospice set up a bed in our living room as she wants to pass at home with her family~The morphine does help!!

Debby is doing her best! I'm glad we had 23 years of Love! Hug Your Loved Ones Daily~~~~~

Been there and done that many years ago. There is nothing easy about it, but time is a great healer. You will never forget her, but you are not supposed to.

Something that was told to me as I went through it.....The hurt is equal to the Love you had for her!!

My wife did Hospice for several years. It's a wonderful program and eases some of the unpleasantness. Prayers and blessings to you, your wife and family.

G2

Anyone who works in Hospice deserves Sainthood. Bill

So very sorry to read this.
Praying for as much comfort as she can get.
Yourself as well.

The doctor increased her morphine to every 2-4 hours. It might help the pain but it make it hard to communicate! I would rather help her pain!! This suggs!beyond what I ever imagined!PS Hospice has been great https://www.floridahospices.org/hosp...lliative-care/

Yesterday she made some eye contact, today none~

Hospice has arrived to make her confortable for her final hours. I am a mess! I kissed her on the forehead and tried to hide my tears~ Her Mother And Father, 1952

Eric, do you have someone there with you right now…family/child/close friend/etc?

Yes I have her daughter also a nurse. Yesterday we had the grandchildren over! Yesterday she could move today not! The Hospice nurse stay with her all night! Thank God For Them And You All! I hold her hand and its still warm!

Our nurse survive the colon cancer and while in coma was aware of people prior not able to move~Debby hooked me up to my Sony Walkman and my feet began to keep beat!! STIMULATION!!!

Eric, you Debby and your family are in my thoughts at this difficult time.

May the road rise up to meet you.

May the wind be always at your back.

May the sun shine warm upon your face;

the rains fall soft upon your fields and until we meet again,

may God hold you in the palm of His hand.

Thank You For The Kind Words. I hope this on no one!!! PS Hospice is wonderful, around the clock to make Debbie confortablle! as she passes on! God Bless The Caregivers~~

Debbbie passed on last night as I held her hand~Peace at last~

Oh Eric,

There are no words I can say for you, and your family's loss. God Bless her Heart!!

Mike and Ruthie

Thank You Both~

Eric
I know from experience that there is nothing I can say to ease your grief. Just know that a lot of people do care. Peace to you. Bill

Like Bill, I know there’s nothing I or anyone can say to ease your suffering right now. My own wife two years ago today, and while I feel her absence every day, I find myself doing more smiling than crying each time I think of her. Grief is proof of love. Hang in there and know you’ll see her again; she’s gone to prepare a place for you.

Condolences to you and your family Eric.

Debbie's pain is gone now, and she is at peace.

I miss her so much. Sometime life is crual, unfair~~

Sincere condolences on the loss of your wife. Prayers sent for you both.

G2

Eric, you have my condolences and prayers. 10 years ago i held my dear wife's hand as she died and went to be with the Lord. I griveved but healed with time and the grace of God. I pray your journey forward will be equally positive.

Thank You, The House Seems So Empty`I miss her already! This Sugggs!

Oh god I have dreaded this day.

There is nothing we can say or do that will make this 'go away' Eric.
I remember when my Halina was passing I felt so helpless.
All I could do was love her until the bitter end ... when she left there was a huge part of me that went with her.
I felt lost and nothing mattered at that moment ... I was so angry at GOD ... What did my angel ever do to deserve this, I cursed him for weeks.
Then I realized that although I hurt like I never had before or since that Halina was no longer in pain and isn't that what matters ... she was no longer suffering and that I was being selfish.
Once I realized this my pain changed from anger to sorrow but that it was OK because my soulmate no longer was hurting.
I have missed her every second of every minute of every day and I always will but our time together will never fade.

And so it is with your soulmate Debby, she is now in a place of no pain ... you will hurt but that is because you love her so much.
There are more than a few of us who have gone through this and anytime you need some support we are here.

I feel for you, Eric. I have been where you are. Know that we are walking with you on this journey.

So very sorry.

On wings in heaven.......

God bless.............